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The Way Things Work….

I am still amazed at the way things work sometimes. I hope I never lose the amazement because it is a beautiful thing to witness.

I have been stating every morning something I am grateful for, but on Wednesday I forgot to do it.

Wednesday I had a bit of a breakdown. Ok it was more than a “bit of”, it was a BIG breakdown. I had some stuff buried deep down that decided to come on out and say, “Here I am”. A lot of emotions came along with this, like anger, pain, embarrassment etc, and I was overwhelmed, to say the least.

Lots of drama and craziness ensued as I am sad to say I did not handle any of it very well. I tried to really deal with it all once I got home from work but it just wasn’t in the cards, I guess. Emotionally exhausted, I finally gave up and just tried to sleep. Sleeping did not go well at all either, but it is what it is.
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Thursday’s Thoughts 1/17/2013

“In many shamanic societies, if you came to a medicine person complaining of being disheartened, dispirited, or depressed, they would ask one of four questions: – When did you stop dancing? – When did you stop singing? – When did you stop being enchanted by stories? – When did you stop finding comfort in the sweet territory of silence?” ~ Gabrielle Roth — Thanks for the quote Facebook user Brandon Waloff

This was posted on my Facebook wall and I just loved it so I thought I would share it here with you. I am not sure if the quote is accurate but I like what it is saying. It is a good way to lead off for today’s Thursday’s Thoughts.

The Niners won their playoff game Sunday so they are off to face Atlanta in the NFC Championship Game for the right to move on to the Superbowl! It was such an exciting game and Kapernick was terrific in the game. He silenced a lot of critics with his performance. I think our chances are really good to beat Atlanta and head to the Superbowl for a shot at our 6th Ring. So exciting!

I was out back during my lunch time the other day at work and a breeze came floating by. Over in the corner near the building there was some trash on the ground, little things like bits of paper towel, paper plates etc. The truth is I am not sure what the trash was just that it was there.
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5 Things We Need To Know

This is another terrific post that was on my Facebook page. It was passed on from another terrific site called zenpresence.com

1. Your human life is impermanent.
Self explanatory. No matter what your spiritual beliefs, this life has limits. Cherish every moment.

2. Life has whatever meaning you give it.
So many people, myself included, waste so many years searching for a pre-packaged purpose to be placed at their feet. Save yourself some time. Create a purpose from your values and beliefs. Creating a list of principles, values, and beliefs is a good place to start.

3. You can ( and do) make a difference.
Everything you do ( or don’t do ) makes a difference. No man is an island. All of your choices affect everyone else in your life in one manner or another. Are you adding value?
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Spirit Give Me Strength

I don’t know what is up with me today. I had a good weekend and a good day at work but driving home something just took hold of me. All of a sudden people were just getting on my nerves. I was yelling and cussing and just not feeling centered at all.

I was full of judgement.

I judged the people jaywalking across a very busy street less than 50 feet From the light and crosswalk.

I judged the people speeding who almost rear ended other cars and then almost sideswiped others When quickly changing lanes.

I judged the person who parked next to me at the store. They had backed in crooked leaving about 1 foot of space for me to enter my car.

I judged them all as Idiots.
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Thursday’s Thoughts 1/10/2013

I am working on getting better at blogging and sharing my thoughts so I decided to just start doing it. I am starting Thursday’s Thoughts to just share my random thoughts of the previous week.

The 49ers play the Packers this Saturday night for the right to move on to the NFC Championship Game and then on to the Superbowl. It has been far too many years since the Niners have brought home a Superbowl Win and I am so excited about their chances this year. I for one stand behind Coach Harbaugh’s decision to keep Kap in the line up over Smith. I know Smith was having a terrific year, but he was still mainly a game manager and I really think we need more than that to win our 6th Superbowl. No matter what I am proud of the team and thrilled that we have had 2 great years in a row with more to come.

It is interesting how many Facebook Friends are posting spiritual things since I opened up to this new path. I’m not sure if they were posting them all before and I didn’t notice or if they are also opening up to Spirit.

Either way, I am grateful for it. Everyday there seems to be at least 1 post that is so timely for me right now. I am beginning to get a new sense of purpose for Facebook now. I hadn’t been spending much time there at all for months before my rebirth, but now I actually enjoy checking in to see what terrific things are being posted.
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