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Thursday’s Thoughts – 2/28/2013

Well we made it to the end of February. This has been a weird month for me. It certainly seemed to fly by. We had snow, and quite a bit of it, in Tucson which we are not used to. This photo cracks me up. It should state in Tucson, not Arizona but it makes me giggle.

Who's Playing Jumanji


The other day while Blythe and I were stating what we were grateful for, she actually said she was grateful for sports. It was the first time she stated she was grateful for something that she doesn’t like. I was amazed. Each day I see her getting more into this and I am so thrilled.


Well it looks like it is just about official, Alex Smith is being traded to the Cheifs. I am not a Smith fan but I have to admit that the guy has class. They way he handled all of his time in San Francisco especially losing his starting position mid way through the year last year, is amazing.
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Thursday’s Thoughts – 2/21/2013

Today’s post is going to be a little different. You see, last week was a terrible week at work. I called it “piss on Cheryl” week. My boss was was very hard on me and blaming me for a variety of issues of which maybe 20% were actually my fault. Needless to say it wore me down.

Friday and Saturday I tried to just let it all go but it all seeped in and by Sunday the darkness had taken a hold of me and I lost the will to fight and took the easy road and gave in to it. I spent the next four days in bed.

My spirit was down which lowered all my defenses which in turn allowed the illness in and fever finally took over. Monday and Tuesday I did manage to get up and take my daughter to school but come Wednesday when the fever was at its peak I told my daughter that I could not drive her.

I slept alot and watched a lot of brainless movies but I did not do a lot of thinking. Looking back now I guess I didn’t just do brainless. I did watch a couple of my spiritual movies, you know the ones I watch when I am down. I guess I knew this was more spiritual than I admitted at the time.
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Thursday’s Thoughts – 2/14/2013

Happy Valentines Day
Happy Valentines Day to all! I am actually not one who really celebrates this day. For me it is more important to celebrate and show Love every day so that is what I try to do. I guess I don’t want to be in the mindset of – as long as I celebrate this one particular day I am good -. To each their own, though, so if you like celebrating this day then have at it and enjoy. Now on to today’s thoughts.


The Simple Things
I have been blessed lately to have some simple things occur in my life that just make me happy. For me it is the simple things that truly touch my heart. The simple gesture, the simple picture, the simple words, the simple look, all the simple things. I have been noticing lately that these simple things are touching my heart more and more.
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The Way Things Work….

I am still amazed at the way things work sometimes. I hope I never lose the amazement because it is a beautiful thing to witness.

I have been stating every morning something I am grateful for, but on Wednesday I forgot to do it.

Wednesday I had a bit of a breakdown. Ok it was more than a “bit of”, it was a BIG breakdown. I had some stuff buried deep down that decided to come on out and say, “Here I am”. A lot of emotions came along with this, like anger, pain, embarrassment etc, and I was overwhelmed, to say the least.

Lots of drama and craziness ensued as I am sad to say I did not handle any of it very well. I tried to really deal with it all once I got home from work but it just wasn’t in the cards, I guess. Emotionally exhausted, I finally gave up and just tried to sleep. Sleeping did not go well at all either, but it is what it is.
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Thursday’s Thoughts 1/24/2013

I have had an up and down week but I am still here and kicking. I have so much running through my brain lately but I am doing my best to not let it overwhelm me. My daughter and I are still doing our morning sharing of what we are grateful for and it is certainly helping throughout the day for me. I think more time is needed for her to really open up to it. Either way, it is a good exercise that we will continue to do. Now on to my thoughts for today.


NINERS ARE GOING TO THE SUPERBOWL!!!! Yep I did just yell that. The Niners won an exciting NFC Championship game coming from 17 points down to take the lead in the 4th quarter and then hanging on for the win. They have not been to the Superbowl since the 1994 season so this has been a long time coming. They have been to the Superbowl 5 times before and have never lost. They will be facing the Baltimore Ravens and shooting for their 6th Superbowl Ring.

Baltimore beat New England which I love to see because I am not a Patriots fan and I really do not like Tom Brady. I will agree that he is a terrific QB, but I think he is big ol’ baby and sore loser. He throws fits when things don’t go his way. In my opinion he does not have class like Joe Montana.
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